i'm not really very religous but this rings true......

its from a religous site.

The following links argue that in a relationship:

• the man must love the woman unconditionally
• the woman must respect the man unconditionally

http://www.loveandrespect.com/content/crazy_cycle.php

and

http://www.loveandrespect.com/content/highDivorceRateVideo.php